Ep. 429 - Sabrina Zohar on How to Manifest the Love You Want

Have you ever chased someone who wasn’t fully choosing you, overanalyzed every text, or kept repeating the same relationship patterns, even when you knew you deserved more? What if secure love isn’t about becoming more desirable, but about feeling safe and worthy within yourself?
In this honest, empowering episode, Jessica sits down with dating and relationship coach, podcast host, and author of Why Am I Like This? Sabrina Zohar to unpack the subconscious patterns, attachment wounds, and limiting beliefs that keep us stuck in the same cycles. After anxious attachment, heartbreak, and self-abandonment (including sending 173 texts to someone who rejected her), Sabrina shares how she broke free from validation-seeking and built the self-worth to experience a completely different kind of love. Jessica also opens up about healing her own anxious attachment through the TBM work and how reprogramming limiting beliefs changed her experience of trust, safety, and love.
Whether you’re dating, manifesting a partner, healing from heartbreak, or deepening an existing relationship, this conversation is a reminder: you don’t have to be perfect to be worthy of love. You just have to stop abandoning yourself in pursuit of it.
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In this episode we talk about:
How anxious attachment develops and why it can keep us chasing emotionally unavailable partners
Sabrina Zohar's story of sending 173 texts and the deeper abandonment wounds
Why childhood conditioning and subconscious beliefs influence who we're attracted to
The difference between genuine chemistry and nervous system activation
How to recognize when you're attached to the fantasy of someone rather than the reality of the relationship
Are you seeing a red flag? Or is it your a...